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31 Things Before 31

Y’ALL. I turn 30fun in less than a month. 30 has been good to me. Tumultuous, adventurous, full of love and laughter. Here are 31 more things to accomplish before I turn 31: 1. Idaho (at least book the trip) 2. [redacted] 3. Closure [redacted] 4. Stain coffee table 5. Sand dumpster-diving entry table + buy…

#ActuallySheCan

Last night at the gym, my male training partner pointed to a guy on TV and said, “how did that guy become the head of a chicken company?” and I said, “he’s an old white guy.” I frequently point out how much easier it is for an old, white guy to succeed at business. This…

Live the Questions

I would like to beg you, dear Sir, as well as I can, to have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don’t search for the answers, which could not be given to…

Grandma

Cleaning out my grandparents’ house for an estate sale, my mom and her sisters found this picture. They said they never knew how much I looked like Grandma Blair until they saw this picture—but I knew. It’s more the look than how she looks, but that’s there too: the cheeks, the smile, and you can’t…

Stop the Beauty Madness

LOVE this new ad campaign. Click here for the other 20 ads from #StoptheBeautyMadness. The goal of the campaign: “Women can no longer sit back and hope someone else stops the beauty madness. It’s an inside job first, of course. But then it becomes a real-world community job. We are the choir on this, so…

On Being a Celeb Feminist

This post is a departure from outfits and shoe picks and faux celeb shenanigans, but it’s important to speak up for yourself, speak out against wrongdoing, and challenge the status quo. So here we go. Celeb Shailene Woodley doesn’t consider herself a feminist (click here for the TIME article). When asked “Do you consider yourself…